This the season to be sad!
You should never force something to last sometimes feelings fade and you should learn to move forward or it will form into something toxic. I know it’s easier said than done but communicate with who you’re with it’s the best way to make things clear. Also try to remember love and lust are easily confused so make sure it’s someone you truly want to connect with. I hope this helps.
“The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another person–without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.”— Osho
